A curious fact about the family values held by most Indigenous American tribes north of Mexico is shared in Dale Van Every’s 1966 book, Disinherited: The Lost Birthright of the American Indian. The parents, he explains, were “constitutionally reluctant to discipline [their] children. [The child’s] every exhibition of self-will was accepted as a favorable indication of the development of maturing character.”
That’s not very American.
Yes, we’re free. But free to be normal. Free to follow what we’re told. Free to live life the way it’s been prescribed. Even though we really did make it all up.
If you were being your true self, what societal expectation that you’ve been performing would you walk away from today?
And what’s that thing you’ve been wanting to do, if only people wouldn’t look at you weird?
A thousand unique you’s and me’s may be hiding a million different beautiful adventures that should be loved and celebrated. Unique is beautiful. Unique is good. This is why we have spice cupboards.
Life is short. A lot of rules are silly.
So color your vibrant color vibrantly outside the lines.
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